I have a few thoughts…
Maybe it makes us see we are not alone,
Its not projected in society (we keep that shit private!)
May not be accepted in this era of never fail and never fear.
Like Brein Brown says, is it confused with weakness? And if so, why and when does it cross that line?
May be painful to see emotions that we can recognize and empathize with.
It may just look crazy and unusual psychosis seems fascinating to most.
It may depend on how much understanding ones self has on issues with vulnerability and the human mind/emotion machine
Or to compare the others ‘infraction’ to the severity of their own (unless a sociopath of course!) and weigh in on wether they themselves are within the acceptability levels of modern society.
Maybe it is to test ourselves to see if we are truly seeing vulnerability or it is someone manipulating vulnerability?
Also regarding the manipulation of vulnerability… if it is being done, is it being done consciencely or unconsciencely? If unbeknownst to the vulnerable one, is it really defering it to avoid revealing their true vulnerability?
How much vulnerability is acceptable to show ourselves vs. the outside world.
I know i am much more real with myself than i would like the world to know about. The way societal views come in and out of fashion so quickly, will one revealing their vulnerabilities end up being shamed down the road & having it come back to haunt them? Making THEM the one that is then not accepted by society, when while behaving this way back then, it was perfectly normal.
Is it just perspective and point of view as well as personal beliefs and experiences that decide what way we take seeing anothers vulnerabilities? Or maybe it has more to do with how we feel about ourselves at that very moment as to how we feel towards seeing in a state of vulnerability.
I am still not too sure. Where is the line between having empathy for someone’s wrong doings vs. judging and writing them off for those acts? It is a very interesting thing for me to ponder….
- making myself vulnerable (thesethingschange.wordpress.com)